This year has been such a blessing to all of us. I presume that we have all had our fare share of both good and bad when it comes to love. I know it is a wonderful thing and everyone deserves to be loved. I have learnt a few things about it to that I would like to share with you.
1. Love is patient
When you get to know someone, it takes a lot of time and sacrifice, therefore patience should be a virtue. To me, this means that if you want to get to know someone, don’t expect them to have carried a CV to tell you every single detail about themselves. Just learn to work through it together. Besides that is hat dating is all about. You getting to know each other.
2. Love cannot be one sided
I’m sorry if you think that you can love a person by yourself without them having the same feelings towards you. Even if you love them with your entire soul, mind and body. Nothing beats the fact that love is supposed to be between to people whose feelings are mutual.
3. Everyone has their own time
Do not rush. As the title says everyone has their own time. It is relevant to wait and be patient because the right person will come to you. It is hard to be patient as we just want to be in relationships for the sake of being in them. That’s not the right way of things and yes I have learnt from experience. Sometimes it may suck to be single but hey, enjoy it while it lasts. It is worth it.
4. Sex is not glue for a relationship
I said it. Whoever lied to you that sex can keep y’all together lied. Sex is not the solution to everything. Besides in a relationship there needs to be maturity: in thinking, speech and where the relationship is headed. Let no body lie to you that 95% of being together is determined by sex. I’m sorry but I disagree.
5. Everybody wants to love, everybody wants to be loved
Love is definitely two way. Have you heard this song? It is so true. I believe there is someone out there for everyone. Just listen to this song you will understand why.
6. If it is meant to be, it will be
Just as the statement says if it is meant to be, it will be. There is no need to force things. If they ain’t working out, then they ain’t working. Let it go. Even if you leave emotionally, physically will be easy once you’re ready.
7. Love loves me and you. ☺
It is very easy to give up on love, especially when things don’t seem to work out the way they should. You know how you have that strategic plan ( vision board) of how you fall in love, get married, have kids as in do the works and then that bubble you had gets destroyed. Don’t lose hope. Things will definitely look up because love loves you and me.
What lessons have you learnt about love this year?
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