I honestly didn’t get the spelling wrong. Just the way the title is written, is exactly what we’ll be looking at today. Men Who Prey. It is interesting to see some guys taking advantage of women.
When a woman shows you who she is by showing you her vulnerable side it is taken advantage of. Why is that? I thought that’s what dating was or is all about. Both sides, male and female being vulnerable with each other, sharing their stories and deciding if they want to date or not.
Recently, I heard a story of a friend who was promised heaven and earth, the stars and the moon, but all that seemed like such a long distance because all those things promised didn’t come to pass.
I think nice girls’ are usually taken advantage of. I mean we pour out our hearts and souls, only for them to be ripped apart and crushed into a million pieces.
The guy who this friend of mine was with told her that he would do anything for her. For the time they were together, she was his queen. It was such an envious relationship because I mean who wouldn’t want to be someone’s queen.
According to Professor Google, if a man calls you his queen, he has literally put you in a pedestal. You rule his world, his kingdom. You are royalty!
One day, all his goodness and kindness ended. She was somewhere in between hell and another planet. He shook her world. She was no longer his queen. How did that even happen? It’s like at the snap of his fingers, his liking or was it loving for her died. Poof. Gone. Over and done with.
She was preyed upon. He must have just used her to get what he thought he would get, and when that didn’t work out, he left.
Which brings me to my question…
What do Men Want?
Is it so hard to find a good ,nice girl, treat her right, be patient with her and then just like the others take her home to meet your folks?
It was so hard for her to believe that all that she had dreamed was gone. Her world was built around him and imagining what it would be like to move on was unimaginable.
Guys! It is time to decide what you want. Preying on a woman’s emotions makes you look bad. Getting her to believe in love again might be hard, but we all learn the lessons.
Here’s the most important bit though… Those who prey spoil chances for other guys to get to know this girl because once a good girl goes bad, she never comes back. Rihanna once experienced that, so don’t expect a good girl to come back because now she will guard her heart so dearly that penetrating through will take more than just a few “I love you” and roses.
To all the men who genuinely treat their girls as queens, I salute you. Don’t break her heart. Take care of it properly!!