When you believe in love, you believe in every possibility of it, its whole existence and its feeling. Love cannot be seen, but it can be felt and all senses usually get heightened by the very feeling of it. It is something that cannot be ignored, because it is all around us. After experiencing a heart break or a let down, would you still believe in love? (trust me I’ve been there). It is a mind boggling question that runs through peoples’ minds and the answer is sometimes just a grey area. There’s really no straight forward answer about it.
Love is really a strange thing as you either have it or don’t. Once you find it though, you guard it with all your heart, strength and mind. Having said that, a few people know how to guard their relationships and work it out with fear and respect for their spouses. It is a wonderful aspect seeing these relationships flourishing because when these people got into it, they knew what they wanted out of it, hence it moves to the next level.
To see Valentines Day being celebrated once a year is a good thing, but ensuring to keep at it for the entire year is even better. Surprising your loved one with small gifts here and there won’t hurt a thing because guess what, you’ve made up your mind about being with this person and you only want what’s best for them. Remembering them throughout the year is a thought that counts.
Even when going through the small and BIG hurdles, it will remind them why they fell in love with you in the first place. And oh yes and it is a two way thing because it takes two to Tango. The more a spouse is appreciated, the more love forgives and protects them.
They say that showing love should be done on every occasion possible as it revives and rekindles. Don’t be shy about it, just do it. send those flowers, surprise him with a note, be there, do those little things.
I am learning from the best and seeing their examples makes me glow with joy because I know one day this will be me. For now I will guard my heart until that ‘best’ comes along. I do not want to say “better half” because I am complete on my own. when he comes along he will be complete together. Make sense? Ladies and gentlemen please don’t wait to be made complete by a partner. Be better by yourself, that way whoever comes your way will know and understand that. We should be whole beings.
To all those who inspired this post, y’all are the real MVP’s. You are such an inspiration. What would we do without you? <3.
It is not easy by the way to just be in love. A lot of work and time have to be put in it. If the relationship has to work then there needs to be a lot of sacrifice. And these couples have shown what sacrifice really means. They knew what they were getting into and in order for whatever they had to work, meant that they had to put in the time and not give up on each other.
I have heard of the ups and downs, the good times and bad and honestly, that is what love entails. It can’t always be rosy. Every relationship has its issues but let’s all agree that in the end it worth fighting for.
This article is not just about Valentines Day, but it is about couples giving each other chance after chance even when there is a stumbling block. Love is an everyday affair. One day is really not enough to celebrate amazing people who would do anything for their loved ones.